You’re about to say who performs an action on themselves and place me, te, se, nos, and os with confidence. Start with the first unit and connect each pronoun to the right person.

Reflexive pronouns change according to the person of the verb. With is used: . With is used: . With , and formal is used: and . With masculine and feminine is used: . With masculine and feminine is used: . With masculine, feminine and formal is used: and . The form does not change according to the person's gender, but according to the grammatical person of the verb.

Present tense of a common reflexive verb
SubjectInfinitiveConjugation
🌅yo
levantarse
me levanto
📱tú
levantarse
te levantas
🐓él
levantarse
se levanta
☕nosotros
levantarse
nos levantamos
🏖️vosotros
levantarse
os levantáis
🌞ellos
levantarse
se levantan

A reflexive pronoun shows that the subject performs the action on itself. In , Ana performs the action and also receives it. If the pronoun is removed, the sentence no longer shows that direct relationship and the meaning may change completely. does not talk about Carlos, but about the car. does talk about Carlos and his own action on his body. The pronoun connects the subject with the result of the action.

Basic idea of reflexivity
Idea
🪞The reflexive pronoun is used when the subject performs and receives the action at the same time.
🪒With personal-care verbs, the pronoun shows that the action falls on the same person.
🧼In everyday actions, the reflexive helps express routines done by oneself.

Many verbs are used with a reflexive pronoun in daily life. appears in and . is used in or . appears in and . , , , and are also frequent. In these verbs, the pronoun is part of normal usage and accompanies the verb in everyday situations.

Reflexive verbs used in everyday life
WordDefinition
lavarse🚿Means to clean oneself with water and soap.
vestirse👕Means to put on clothes.
levantarse⏰Means to stand up or get out of bed.
sentarse🪑Means to take a seat.
ducharse🚿Means to bathe with a shower.
peinarse💇Means to arrange one's hair with a comb or brush.
acostarse🛏️Means to go to bed.
despertarse☀️Means to stop sleeping.
bañarse🐶Means to get into the water to clean oneself.
ponerse🧥Means to put something on oneself.

With a conjugated verb, the pronoun goes before it: , , . With an infinitive, it can go before it or be attached to the end: and . With a gerund, it can also go before it or at the end: and . When the pronoun is attached to the end, the verb keeps its meaning and the accent mark may change in some forms to preserve the correct pronunciation, as in or .

Placement of the pronoun with different verbs
UsageExplanation
🍳Conjugated verbWith a conjugated verb, the pronoun goes before the verb.
✂️InfinitiveWith an infinitive, the pronoun can go attached to the end.
🎉GerundWith a gerund, the pronoun can go attached to the end or before the auxiliary verb.
🍽️Verb periphrasisIn a periphrasis, it is also normal to put the pronoun before the auxiliary verb.

In affirmative commands, the pronoun is attached to the end of the verb: , , . In negative commands, the pronoun goes before the verb: , , . The affirmative form sounds compact because verb + pronoun form a single word. In the negative form, the negation breaks that connection and the pronoun remains before the verb. With and , the placement changes clearly between and .

Pronouns with affirmative and negative commands
UsageExplanation
📣Affirmative commandWith an affirmative command, the pronoun attaches to the end of the verb.
🚫Negative commandWith a negative command, the pronoun goes before the verb.
🛋️Command with two pronounsIf two pronouns appear, the reflexive pronoun is placed next to the verb following the same rule.

The form does not always function as a reflexive pronoun. In , the sentence is impersonal and does not present a specific subject. In , receives the action and the sentence has a passive meaning. It also appears in constructions such as or , where helps express a general action or a situation without identifying a specific person as the agent. In these cases, does not mean that the subject performs the action on itself.

Values of se that are not reflexive
Idea
🏘️In impersonal constructions, se avoids mentioning who performs the action.
🏪In the se-passive, se presents the action as something general or impersonal.
😔With non-reflexive pronominal verbs, se forms part of the verb and does not mean reciprocity or reflexivity.

Some verbs change meaning when they take a reflexive pronoun. and do not mean the same thing: indicates movement toward a place, while expresses departure. and are also different: talks about the action of sleeping, and indicates that I begin to sleep. and change in the same way: means that bread remains, and means that I remain there. The pronoun adds a new idea, not just a different form.

Verbs that change with a pronoun
WordDefinition
dormir😴Means to rest or spend the night sleeping.
dormirse🎬Means to begin sleeping or fall asleep.
ir🚶Means to move from one place to another.
irse🏠Means to depart or leave a place.
quedar🤝Means to remain or arrange a date.
quedarse🤫Means to remain in a place or feel a certain way.
sentir👃Means to perceive something with the senses or with emotion.
sentirse😊Means to experience a physical or emotional state.
poner📚Means to place something somewhere.
ponerse🌧️Means to change state or put something on oneself.

In Spain, corresponds to and corresponds to : , . In many countries in the Americas, is not used and takes its place in everyday conversation: , . This substitution also affects the reflexive pronoun, because is used with . Thus, remains for the first-person plural and remains associated with the Peninsular use of the second-person plural.

Regional differences in forms of personal address
RegionVariantDefinitionExample
🇪🇸SpainnosUsed as a first-person plural pronoun for we in reflexive constructions.
Nos lavamos antes de cenar.We wash before dinner.
💬SpainosUsed as a second-person plural pronoun for you all in reflexive constructions.
Os sentáis aquí, por favor.You all sit here, please.
🇲🇽Mexicoustedes seUsed for the second-person plural and replaces vosotros and os.
Ustedes se preparan muy rápido.You all get ready very quickly.
🇦🇷Argentinaustedes seCommonly used for the plural and vosotros does not appear in everyday speech.
Ustedes se reúnen más tarde.You all meet later.

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You can now choose the reflexive pronoun for each person, place pronouns with conjugated verbs, infinitives, gerunds, and commands, and distinguish common uses of se. Put those skills to work in conversations about routines, then continue with the Spanish object pronouns module to expand your sentences.

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