Reflexive Pronouns in EnglishA2
Practice reflexive pronouns like myself and yourself. Use them in clear sentences to sound natural and correct.
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Reflexive pronoun forms
Reflexive pronouns refer back to the same person or thing already mentioned in the sentence. The full set is myself, yourself, himself, herself, itself, ourselves, yourselves, and themselves. Each form matches a different subject, so I takes myself, you takes yourself, he takes himself, and so on. A reflexive pronoun always points back to the subject, so it works together with Subject Pronouns and is one type of Pronouns.
| Word | Definition | Example | |
|---|---|---|---|
| myself | The reflexive form for I when the subject and object are the same person. | ||
| yourself | The reflexive form for you when speaking to one person. | ||
| himself | The reflexive form for he when the subject and object are the same male person. | ||
| herself | The reflexive form for she when the subject and object are the same female person. | ||
| itself | The reflexive form for it when a thing or animal acts on itself. | ||
| ourselves | The reflexive form for we when the subject and object are the same group. | ||
| yourselves | The reflexive form for you when speaking to more than one person. | ||
| themselves | The reflexive form for they when the subject and object are the same group. |
The detective blamed the mess on the only person in the room.
The detective blamed the mess on (himself / herself / themselves)
Matching subject and reflexive
Choose the reflexive pronoun that matches the subject’s person and number. Use myself with I, ourselves with we, and themselves with they. Use the singular forms for one person or thing and the plural forms for more than one. The subject controls the form even when the subject is not nearby in the sentence. In She taught herself, the subject is she, so the reflexive form is herself.
| Example | Pattern | |
|---|---|---|
| Use the reflexive pronoun that matches the subject person. | ||
| Use the singular form when the subject is one person. | ||
| Use the plural form when the subject is more than one person. | ||
| Do not use a reflexive pronoun that does not match the subject number. | ||
| Choose the form that fits the subject and object together. |
Two sisters finished the escape room without any clues.
Two sisters finished the escape room (themselves / herself / ourselves) without any clues.
Reflexives as sentence objects
A reflexive pronoun can act as the object of a verb when the subject and the object are the same person. In I hurt myself, the verb hurt needs an object, and myself receives the action. Reflexives also appear after prepositions when the meaning points back to the subject, as in She kept the notes for herself and They prepared dinner by themselves. In these positions, the reflexive pronoun follows the verb or the preposition just like other object pronouns, and it is useful for Object Pronouns.
| Usage | Explanation | Example | |
|---|---|---|---|
| Direct object after an action verb | Use a reflexive pronoun when the subject does the action to the same person. | ||
| Object of a preposition | Use a reflexive pronoun after a preposition when the person is affected by the action. | ||
| After verbs of injury or care | Use a reflexive pronoun when someone hurts or helps the same person. | ||
| To avoid repetition | Use a reflexive pronoun when the object is the same person as the subject. | ||
| With both subject and object | Use a reflexive pronoun when the sentence needs to show the subject and object are identical. |
After the muddy race, the runner washed very carefully.
After the muddy race, the runner washed (herself / herselfs / themself) very carefully.
Reflexives for emphasis
Reflexive pronouns can add emphasis to a noun or pronoun. In I myself did it, myself does not replace the subject. It highlights that I was the person responsible. You can place the reflexive form right after the subject or after the object it emphasizes. The sentence still works without it, so this use is optional. Compare The manager herself answered the phone with The manager answered the phone.
| Usage | Explanation | Example | |
|---|---|---|---|
| Strong emphasis on the subject | Use a reflexive pronoun to show that the subject alone did the action. | ||
| Clarifying who is responsible | Use a reflexive pronoun to make the person responsible very clear. | ||
| Highlighting direct involvement | Use a reflexive pronoun to stress that the subject was personally involved. | ||
| Optional emphasis | Use this form only when you want extra emphasis, because the sentence still works without it. |
Common reflexive phrases
Several reflexive phrases are fixed parts of everyday English. By myself can mean alone or without help: I finished the project by myself. All by herself adds strong emphasis: She opened the shop all by herself. Help yourself is a polite offer or invitation, often used at a table or in a store. Feel like myself means to feel normal again: After the flu, I finally felt like myself. These expressions should be learned as complete phrases because their meaning is not always created word by word.
Reflexives versus each other
Use a reflexive pronoun when one person or thing acts on the same person or thing: He blamed himself. Use each other or one another when two or more people act on each other: They blamed each other. The key difference is whether the action returns to the same subject or moves between different people in the group. Reflexive pronouns and reciprocal pronouns do not mean the same thing, and choosing the wrong one changes the sentence meaning. This contrast also matters with Relative Pronouns and Indefinite Pronouns, where the reference can be less direct.
| Example | Pattern | |
|---|---|---|
| Use a reflexive pronoun when one person acts on the same person. | ||
| Use each other when two people act on one another. | ||
| Use one another when more than two people act on one another. | ||
| Do not use a reflexive pronoun when the meaning is shared action between people. | ||
| Choose the form that makes the relationship in the sentence clear. |
Using me in some regions
In some casual regional speech, people use me where standard English uses a reflexive pronoun. You may hear I hurt me or She bought me a book for me in informal speech, but standard English uses myself or another matching reflexive form when the subject and object are the same. In writing and in careful speech, use the reflexive form that matches the subject. The standard pattern is clear in sentences like I cut myself and They enjoyed themselves.
| Region | Variant | Definition | Example | |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| me | In some casual speech, me can replace a reflexive pronoun in very informal conversation. | |||
| me | In some informal local speech, me may appear where standard English would use a reflexive form. | |||
| me | In relaxed speech, me can sometimes stand in for a reflexive pronoun in everyday talk. | |||
| me | In informal speech, me may be used in place of a reflexive pronoun by some speakers. |
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Now you can use reflexive pronouns correctly
You can choose the right reflexive pronoun form and make it match the subject’s person and number. You can use reflexives as verb objects and after prepositions, add them for emphasis, and recognize common fixed phrases. You also know when to use reflexives versus each other/one another, and you can avoid the nonstandard me pattern in careful English.