Reflexive Verbs in EnglishA2
Learn when to use myself and -self forms correctly, and practice reflexive verbs in everyday English sentences.
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Reflexive Pronoun Forms
English uses eight reflexive pronouns: myself, yourself, himself, herself, itself, ourselves, yourselves, and themselves. These forms point back to the subject of the clause. They are different from ordinary object pronouns, so me, him, and them do not replace them. The full set appears in Reflexive Pronouns.
| Word | Definition | Example | |
|---|---|---|---|
| myself | Use this to mean the same person as I. | ||
| yourself | Use this to mean the same person as you. | ||
| himself | Use this to mean the same person as he. | ||
| herself | Use this to mean the same person as she. | ||
| itself | Use this to mean the same thing as it. | ||
| ourselves | Use this to mean the same people as we. | ||
| yourselves | Use this to mean the same people as you. | ||
| themselves | Use this to mean the same people as they. |
Matching Pronoun to Subject
A reflexive pronoun must match the subject in person and number. Use I with myself, you with yourself for one person, he with himself, she with herself, and it with itself. Use we with ourselves, you with yourselves for more than one person, and they with themselves. The pronoun always refers back to the same subject, never to a different person in the sentence.
| Example | Pattern | |
|---|---|---|
| Use myself when the subject is I. | ||
| Use yourself when the subject is you. | ||
| Use himself when the subject is he. | ||
| Use herself when the subject is she. | ||
| Use itself when the subject is it. | ||
| Use ourselves when the subject is we. | ||
| Use yourselves when the subject is you plural. | ||
| Use themselves when the subject is they. |
Which sentence uses the reflexive pronoun that matches the subject and number?
Basic Reflexive Sentence Pattern
The usual pattern is subject + verb + reflexive pronoun. In everyday English, the verb comes first in the clause and the reflexive pronoun follows it: I wash myself, She dressed herself, They blamed themselves. The verb is the main action, and the reflexive pronoun shows that the subject receives that action too. English verbs work in many patterns like this, as explained in Verbs.
| Subject | Infinitive | Conjugation | Example | |
|---|---|---|---|---|
I | wash | wash myself | ||
You | wash | wash yourself | ||
He | wash | washes himself | ||
She | wash | washes herself | ||
We | wash | wash ourselves | ||
They | wash | wash themselves |
Common Reflexive Verbs
Some verbs often appear with reflexive pronouns because the subject acts on the same person or thing. Common examples are wash myself, cut yourself, hurt himself, introduce ourselves, prepare themselves, protect itself, and teach yourself. Other common everyday verbs are enjoy, concentrate, relax, and behave when they are used with a reflexive pronoun in some varieties of English, as in He should behave himself and Try to relax yourself in a direct instruction. The verb chooses the reflexive pattern when the meaning stays centered on the subject.
| Word | Definition | Example | |
|---|---|---|---|
| enjoy oneself | This means to have a good time in a relaxed way. | ||
| behave oneself | This means to act in a proper way. | ||
| concentrate oneself | This means to focus all attention on one thing. | ||
| relax oneself | This means to become calm and less tense. | ||
| pride oneself | This means to feel proud because of a quality or skill. | ||
| prepare oneself | This means to get ready mentally or physically. | ||
| introduce oneself | This means to tell someone your name. | ||
| hide oneself | This means to put yourself out of sight. | ||
| teach oneself | This means to learn without a teacher. | ||
| express oneself | This means to show your thoughts or feelings clearly. |
Reflexive and Emphatic Use
A reflexive pronoun can show a true reflexive meaning or an emphatic meaning. In a true reflexive sentence, the subject does the action to the same person or thing: She looked at herself in the mirror. In an emphatic sentence, the reflexive pronoun adds force and means alone or without help: I did it myself, The manager himself answered the phone, We cooked the meal ourselves. In emphatic use, the sentence still works without the reflexive pronoun, but the pronoun gives extra focus to the subject.
| Example | Pattern | |
|---|---|---|
| Use a reflexive pronoun when the subject and the object are the same person. | ||
| Use a reflexive pronoun to show that someone did something without help. | ||
| Use a reflexive pronoun for strong emphasis on who did the action. | ||
| Place the reflexive pronoun right after the verb or after the object it relates to. | ||
| Do not use a reflexive pronoun when the action clearly affects another person or thing. |
Special Verb and Form Cases
Some verbs commonly appear in fixed patterns with reflexive pronouns. Help yourself is a standard expression when offering food or permission. Teach yourself often means learning without a teacher, as in She taught herself Spanish. Some verbs take reflexive forms after prepositions in set patterns, such as by myself, for yourself, and to themselves. Reflexive pronouns also stay the same in -ing and past participle structures: washing herself, having taught himself, the children, feeling proud of themselves. The reflexive form does not change because the clause is in a different verb form; it still matches the subject.
| Usage | Explanation | Example | |
|---|---|---|---|
| Help with object meaning | Use help yourself when you invite someone to take food, drink, or something available. | ||
| Learn without a teacher | Use teach yourself when someone learns a skill alone. | ||
| After certain prepositions | Use a reflexive pronoun after a preposition when English expects that fixed pattern. | ||
| After verbs in ing forms | Use a reflexive pronoun after an ing form when the subject acts on the same person. | ||
| After past participle forms | Use a reflexive pronoun after a past participle when the sentence keeps the same person as both actor and receiver. | ||
| Emphatic extra focus | Use a reflexive pronoun to add special focus to the person named by the subject. |
Take the Quiz!
You can form correct reflexive sentences in English
You now know the eight English reflexive pronouns and how to match them to the subject’s person and number. You can build the standard subject + verb + reflexive pronoun pattern, use common reflexive verbs, and distinguish true reflexive meaning from emphatic “alone/without help” use. You also can handle frequent set phrases and keep the reflexive pronoun unchanged in -ing and participle structures.