In French, the verbs demander and poser both relate to the concept of "asking," but they are used in distinct ways:
  • Demander is about making a request or soliciting something (to ask for).
  • Poser is used for putting or asking questions (poser une question = to ask a question).

Usage: Demander

Demander expresses asking for something—a request, a favor, information, permission, etc.
  • vous demandez un service → you ask for a favor
  • elle demande une augmentation → she asks for a raise
  • on demande des informations → people ask for information

Forms of Demander

  • Infinitive: demander
  • Present: je demande, tu demandes, il/elle demande, nous demandons, vous demandez, ils/elles demandent
  • Past participle: demandé (with avoir)

Example Sentences with Demander

FrenchEnglish
Je demande une augmentation.I am asking for a raise.
Peux-tu me demander un service?Can you ask me for a favor?
Ils demandent des explications.They ask for explanations.

Usage: Poser

Poser is used when you "put (or place) a question or problem forward." It’s for asking questions or raising issues.
  • poser une question → to ask a question
  • poser un problème → to raise a problem
  • poser une condition → to set a condition

Forms of Poser

  • Infinitive: poser
  • Present: je pose, tu poses, il/elle pose, nous posons, vous posez, ils/elles posent
  • Past participle: posé (with avoir)

Example Sentences with Poser

FrenchEnglish
Elle pose une question intéressante.She asks an interesting question.
Avez-vous posé le problème au directeur?Did you raise the problem with the director?
Nous posons nos conditions demain.We will set our conditions tomorrow.

Summary

VerbMeaning/UseExample (Fr)Example (En)
DemanderTo request/ask for somethingJe demande un service.I ask for a service.
PoserTo put forward/ask (a question)Je pose une question.I ask a question.

Exercises

  1. [ ] Write three sentences using demander for different types of requests.
  2. [ ] Write three sentences using poser for questions and other things you can "put" forward.
  3. [ ] Explain why you would use demander or poser in this situation: You want to ask your teacher for extra homework vs. You want to ask a question in class.
Understanding when to use demander and poser helps you avoid common mistakes and express yourself more naturally in French.
  • Demander is for requests or asking for something.
  • Poser is for asking questions or raising issues.
  • Use demander for favors and poser for questions!