In German, reflexive verbs are verbs accompanied by a reflexive pronoun that refers back to the subject. These verbs describe actions where the subject is both the doer and the receiver, such as sich waschen (“to wash oneself”) or sich erinnern (“to remember”).

Reflexive Pronouns

Reflexive pronouns change depending on the subject and case. Here are the nominative (subject) and accusative/dative forms used with reflexive verbs:
Subject PronounReflexive Pronoun (Accusative)Reflexive Pronoun (Dative)
ichmichmir
dudichdir
er/sie/essichsich
wirunsuns
ihreucheuch
sie/Siesichsich
Accusative reflexive pronouns are more common, but some verbs require dative reflexive pronouns, especially when there is another direct object.

Identifying Reflexive Verbs

Many reflexive verbs have the reflexive pronoun sich in the infinitive form:
  • sich waschen* (to wash oneself)
  • sich ärgern* (to get annoyed)
  • sich erinnern* (to remember)
  • sich vorbereiten* (to prepare oneself)
  • sich freuen* (to be happy/excited)
These verbs always appear with a reflexive pronoun in a conjugated sentence.

Common Reflexive Verbs

Here are some frequently used reflexive verbs in German:
German VerbEnglish MeaningExample SentenceEnglish Example
sich waschento wash oneselfIch wasche mich.I wash myself.
sich anziehento dress oneselfDu ziehst dich an.You get dressed.
sich erinnernto rememberSie erinnert sich an den Urlaub.She remembers the vacation.
sich freuento be happy/excitedWir freuen uns auf morgen.We are excited for tomorrow.
sich setzento sit downSetz dich bitte!Please sit down!
sich ärgernto get annoyedEr ärgert sich oft.He often gets annoyed.
sich entspannento relaxIch entspanne mich am Strand.I relax on the beach.
sich vorbereitento prepare oneselfBereitet euch auf die Prüfung vor!Prepare yourselves for the exam!
sich treffento meet (each other)Wir treffen uns um 18 Uhr.We meet at 6 p.m.
sich verliebento fall in loveSie hat sich verliebt.She has fallen in love.

Reflexive Verbs with Accusative Reflexive Pronouns

Most reflexive verbs take accusative pronouns:
German ExampleEnglish Example
Ich wasche mich.I wash myself.
Du ziehst dich an.You get dressed.
Er erinnert sich an die Prüfung.He remembers the exam.
Wir freuen uns auf den Urlaub.We are excited for the vacation.
Setzt euch bitte!Please sit down!

Complete the sentence: Setzt _____ bitte!


euch

"Sich setzen" is reflexive. For "ihr," the reflexive pronoun is "euch."

Reflexive Verbs with Dative Reflexive Pronouns

Some verbs use a dative reflexive pronoun because there is another direct object in the sentence:
German ExampleEnglish Example
Ich kämme mir die Haare.I comb my hair.
Du kaufst dir ein Buch.You buy yourself a book.
Sie wäscht sich die Hände.She washes her hands.
Er nimmt sich eine Auszeit.He takes a break for himself.

Note: In these cases, the reflexive pronoun is dative (mir, dir, sich), while the other object is in the accusative.

Conjugation Patterns

Reflexive verbs follow regular conjugation patterns, but always include the reflexive pronoun in the correct case and position.

Example: sich waschen (to wash oneself)

PersonGerman ExampleEnglish Example
ichIch wasche mich.I wash myself.
duDu wäscht dich.You wash yourself.
er/sie/esSie wäscht sich.She washes herself.
wirWir waschen uns.We wash ourselves.
ihrIhr wascht euch.You (pl.) wash yourselves.
sie/SieSie waschen sich.They/You (formal) wash themselves/yourself.

The verb is conjugated normally, and the reflexive pronoun always follows the verb.

Form the sentence "We wash ourselves." in German using "sich waschen."


Wir waschen uns.

"Wir" takes the verb form "waschen," and the reflexive pronoun is "uns."

Word Order in Sentences

In main clauses, the reflexive pronoun typically comes immediately after the verb:
German ExampleEnglish Example
Ich wasche mich jetzt.I am washing myself now.
Er zieht sich schnell an.He gets dressed quickly.
Wir freuen uns auf morgen.We are excited for tomorrow.
In subordinate clauses, the verb moves to the end, and the reflexive pronoun precedes any other objects:
German ExampleEnglish Example
..., weil ich mich wasche...., because I wash myself.
..., dass sie sich erinnert...., that she remembers.

Separable Reflexive Verbs

Some reflexive verbs are formed with separable prefixes. The reflexive pronoun remains in the sentence, and the verb prefix separates as usual:
German ExampleEnglish Example
Ich ziehe mich an.I get dressed.
Du bereitest dich vor.You prepare yourself.
Wir melden uns an.We register ourselves.

The reflexive pronoun stays next to the verb stem, while the prefix moves to the end.

Reflexive Verbs That Are Not Always Reflexive

Some German verbs can be used reflexively or non-reflexively, depending on the meaning:
VerbReflexive MeaningNon-Reflexive Meaning
sich setzento sit down (oneself)setzen (transitive): to set/put something down
sich erinnernto remembererinnern + acc.: to remind someone
sich beschäftigento occupy oneselfbeschäftigen + acc.: to employ someone
sich freuento be happy/excitedfreuen (rarely non-reflexive)

Reflexive usage usually indicates the subject is acting on itself or experiencing something personally.

Idiomatic Expressions with Reflexive Verbs

Many fixed expressions in German use reflexive verbs:
German ExpressionEnglish Meaning
sich Mühe gebento make an effort
sich die Hände reichento shake hands
sich die Zähne putzento brush one’s teeth
sich Sorgen machento worry
sich auf den Weg machento set off
These are common in everyday conversation.

Practice Tips

  • Learn reflexive verbs together with their reflexive pronouns.
  • Pay attention to whether the verb takes accusative or dative reflexive pronouns.
  • Practice using reflexive verbs in context (e.g., talking about daily routines).
  • Remember that reflexive pronouns always refer back to the subject.

Summary

  • Reflexive verbs describe actions the subject does to or for itself.
  • They always use reflexive pronouns: mich, dich, sich, uns, euch, sich.
  • Most reflexive verbs use accusative pronouns; some use dative.
  • Conjugate the verb normally and include the pronoun immediately after the verb.
  • Some verbs change meaning depending on whether they are used reflexively.
  • Reflexive verbs are common in German daily speech and routines.

Flashcards (1 of 38)

  • Example Sentence: Ich wasche mich.
  • English Meaning: to wash oneself
  • English Example: I wash myself.

Last updated: Wed Jun 18, 2025

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