Meaning and Usage
"Ask" and "request" both involve seeking something from someone, but they differ in formality and tone.
- "Ask" is a general verb used in everyday conversation to seek information, permission, or help.
- "Request" is more formal and polite, often used in writing or official contexts to ask for something carefully or respectfully.
"Ask"* Example (Emily): "Can I help you?"
"Request" Example (Emily): "I would like to request a copy of the report."
Grammar and Structure
"Ask" and "request" follow different grammatical patterns, which affect how you construct sentences.
- Ask + object + to-infinitive:* "She asked him to leave."
- Ask + question word + (subject) + verb:* "He asked where you were."
- Request + object + to-infinitive:* "They requested us to wait."
- Request + that + subject + verb:* "I request that you be punctual."
"Ask"* Example (Sam): "She asked me to call her."
"Request" Example (Sam): "I request that you send the files."
Formality and Tone
Choosing between "ask" and "request" depends on the level of politeness and formality you want to convey.
- "Ask" is neutral and suitable for most situations, including casual and professional.
- "Request" sounds more polite, serious, or official, making it ideal for business, legal, or formal communication.
"Ask"* Example (Lily): "Could you pass the salt?"
"Request" Example (Lily): "I would like to request additional time for the project."
When should you use 'request' instead of 'ask'?
In polite, serious, or official situations
'Request' is appropriate in formal, polite, or official contexts rather than casual speech.
Examples and Contexts
Here are side-by-side examples to show how "ask" and "request" function in similar situations:
- Ask: "He asked me about my weekend."
Request: "He requested information about my weekend plans."
- Ask: "Can I ask you a question?"
Request: "May I request a moment of your time?"
- Ask: "She asked for help."
Request: "She requested assistance."
"Ask"* Example (Emily): "Can I ask you something?"
"Request" Example (Emily): "May I request something from you?"
Translate: Can I ask you something?
Can I ask you something?
'Can I ask you something?' is a direct, polite way to seek permission to question someone.
Key Takeaway
Use ask for general questions and everyday interactions. Use request when you need to be especially polite or formal.
- "Ask" = general, everyday, neutral
- "Request" = polite, formal, careful
"Ask"* Example (Sam): "I'll ask him to come."
"Request" Example (Sam): "I will request his presence."
Last updated: Wed Jun 18, 2025
