Polite Phrases

Politeness in Spanish often relies on set phrases, respectful forms, and softeners that make requests and interactions smooth and pleasant. This guide gives you key expressions and brief notes so you can sound courteous in everyday situations.

Key Expressions

Start with por favor for requests, use gracias and de nada for thanks, and learn short phrases like disculpe and perdón to get attention or apologize. These small expressions set a polite tone immediately.
Spanish Word(s)English Word(s)
por favorplease
graciasthank you
de nadayou're welcome
disculpeexcuse me
perdónsorry / pardon
¿me podría ayudar?could you help me?
con permisoexcuse me (to pass)

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Asking Politely

Use conditional forms like podría or querría plus por favor to soften requests. Starting with ¿sería posible... or ¿me podría... makes your ask sound considerate rather than demanding. Adding gracias de antemano shows appreciation ahead of time.
Spanish Word(s)English Word(s)
¿podría... por favor?could you... please?
¿querría...would you like to / would you (polite)
¿sería posible...would it be possible...
¿me podría ayudar?could you help me?
gracias de antemanothanks in advance

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Apologizing

Use lo siento for sincere apologies, perdón for minor interruptions, and disculpe to politely get someone's attention or to preface an apology. Pairing these with a brief reason makes the apology feel genuine.
Spanish Word(s)English Word(s)
lo sientoI'm sorry
perdónpardon / sorry
disculpeexcuse me
lo siento muchoI'm very sorry
disculpe la molestiasorry for the trouble
perdón por llegar tardesorry for being late

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Thanking

Say gracias for any favor, muchas gracias to emphasize thanks, and gracias de verdad for heartfelt gratitude. Respond to thanks with de nada, no hay de qué, or con mucho gusto to sound natural and gracious.
Spanish Word(s)English Word(s)
graciasthank you
muchas graciasthank you very much
gracias de verdadthank you truly
de nadayou're welcome
no hay de quédon't mention it
con mucho gustowith pleasure

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Giving and Asking for Permission

Use ¿puedo...? to ask permission, con permiso to politely pass by, and se puede for more general or public rules. Responses like sí, claro or lo siento, no keep the interaction clear and courteous.
Spanish Word(s)English Word(s)
¿puedo...?can I...? / may I...?
con permisoexcuse me (to pass)
se puedeis it allowed to / can one...
sí, claroyes, of course
lo siento, nosorry, no
¿me permite...?do you allow me to... / may I...

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Softening Language

Add un momento, si no le importa, or por favor to requests to make them gentler. Phrases like me gustaría or quisiera use the conditional to sound less direct. These small additions show respect for the other person's time and willingness.
Spanish Word(s)English Word(s)
un momentoone moment
si no le importaif you don't mind
me gustaríaI would like
quisieraI would like (more formal)
por favorplease
graciasthank you

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Summary

Politeness in Spanish hinges on using set phrases like por favor, gracias, and disculpe, employing the conditional for requests, and adding softeners that show respect. Practicing these short expressions will make your interactions smoother and more natural.

Last updated: Tue Sep 16, 2025