perder means “to lose something”—whether an object, a game, or a chance—while perderse (reflexive) usually means “to get lost” somewhere or “to miss out” on an event or experience.
Conjugations
Present Tense
Pronoun | perder (lose) | perderse (get lost / miss out) |
---|---|---|
yo | pierdo | me pierdo |
tú | pierdes | te pierdes |
él/ella | pierde | se pierde |
nosotros | perdemos | nos perdemos |
vosotros | perdéis | os perdéis |
ellos/ellas | pierden | se pierden |
Both verbs use the same root perder, but perderse includes the reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, etc.).
Usage and Meaning
Perder: to lose something or miss something
- Directly means to lose (an object, a game, a wallet).
- Also used for missing something (like a bus or appointment).
- Active verb—someone loses or misses something.
Perderse: to get lost or to miss out on something
- Literally means to get lost (lose oneself).
- Figuratively means to miss out on an experience or event.
- Reflexive verb—action affects the subject themselves.
Examples
Examples of Perder (to lose or miss)
- Perdí mis llaves. — I lost my keys.
- Perdimos el partido. — We lost the game.
- No quiero perder el tren. — I don’t want to miss the train.
Examples of Perderse (to get lost or miss out)
- Me perdí en el centro. — I got lost downtown.
- Se perdió la reunión. — He missed the meeting.
- Nos perdimos la película. — We missed the movie.
Summary
- Use perder when something is lost or missed.
- Use perderse when someone gets lost, or when someone misses out (usually involuntarily).
- Remember: perderse is reflexive and affects the subject directly.
Tips
- Context matters: “perderse” can be literal (getting lost) or figurative (missing out).
- Watch for reflexive pronouns: me, te, se, nos, os, se.
- Practice with example sentences to see how meaning changes.
Additional Examples
More Perder sentences
- Perdí mi cartera en el parque. — I lost my wallet in the park.
- Ella siempre pierde sus gafas. — She always loses her glasses.
- ¿Perdiste el vuelo? — Did you miss the flight?
More Perderse sentences
- Nos perdimos en las montañas. — We got lost in the mountains.
- Me perdí el concierto por trabajar. — I missed the concert because I was working.
- ¿Te perdiste la fiesta? — Did you miss the party?
Conclusion
- Perder = to lose or miss (active, direct loss).
- Perderse = to get lost or miss out (reflexive, subject affected).
- Use context and pronouns to choose the right one.
Last updated: Wed Jun 18, 2025