perder means “to lose something”—whether an object, a game, or a chance—while perderse (reflexive) usually means “to get lost” somewhere or “to miss out” on an event or experience.

Conjugations

Present Tense

Pronounperder (lose)perderse (get lost / miss out)
yopierdome pierdo
pierdeste pierdes
él/ellapierdese pierde
nosotrosperdemosnos perdemos
vosotrosperdéisos perdéis
ellos/ellaspierdense pierden

Both verbs use the same root perder, but perderse includes the reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, etc.).

Usage and Meaning

Perder: to lose something or miss something

  • Directly means to lose (an object, a game, a wallet).
  • Also used for missing something (like a bus or appointment).
  • Active verb—someone loses or misses something.

Perderse: to get lost or to miss out on something

  • Literally means to get lost (lose oneself).
  • Figuratively means to miss out on an experience or event.
  • Reflexive verb—action affects the subject themselves.

Examples

Examples of Perder (to lose or miss)

  • Perdí mis llaves. — I lost my keys.
  • Perdimos el partido. — We lost the game.
  • No quiero perder el tren. — I don’t want to miss the train.

Examples of Perderse (to get lost or miss out)

  • Me perdí en el centro. — I got lost downtown.
  • Se perdió la reunión. — He missed the meeting.
  • Nos perdimos la película. — We missed the movie.

Summary

  • Use perder when something is lost or missed.
  • Use perderse when someone gets lost, or when someone misses out (usually involuntarily).
  • Remember: perderse is reflexive and affects the subject directly.

Tips

  • Context matters: “perderse” can be literal (getting lost) or figurative (missing out).
  • Watch for reflexive pronouns: me, te, se, nos, os, se.
  • Practice with example sentences to see how meaning changes.

Additional Examples

More Perder sentences

  • Perdí mi cartera en el parque. — I lost my wallet in the park.
  • Ella siempre pierde sus gafas. — She always loses her glasses.
  • ¿Perdiste el vuelo? — Did you miss the flight?

More Perderse sentences

  • Nos perdimos en las montañas. — We got lost in the mountains.
  • Me perdí el concierto por trabajar. — I missed the concert because I was working.
  • ¿Te perdiste la fiesta? — Did you miss the party?

Conclusion

  • Perder = to lose or miss (active, direct loss).
  • Perderse = to get lost or miss out (reflexive, subject affected).
  • Use context and pronouns to choose the right one.

Last updated: Wed Jun 18, 2025

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