Reflexive verbs show that the subject is doing something to or for itself. Reflexive pronouns match the subject and always appear before the verb. The verbs are conjugated normally, just as you would with any other verb, but you also include the reflexive pronoun. Reflexive pronouns come before conjugated verbs or are attached to infinitives and gerunds.
  • Reflexive verbs use pronouns: me, te, se, nos, os, se.
  • The pronoun agrees with the subject and shows the action reflects back on the subject.
  • These verbs can appear as reflexive or non-reflexive, with the reflexive form changing the meaning.
Example:
  • Me lavo las manos. (I wash my hands.) — reflexive*
  • Lavo el coche. (I wash the car.) — non-reflexive*

Reflexive Verb Conjugation Example (lavarse – to wash oneself)

Subject PronounReflexive PronounConjugated VerbSpanish ExampleEnglish Example
yomelavoMe lavo las manos.I wash my hands.
telavasTe lavas la cara.You wash your face.
él/ella/ustedselavaSe lava el cabello.He/she washes their hair.
nosotros/asnoslavamosNos lavamos los pies.We wash our feet.
vosotros/asoslaváisOs laváis antes de comer.You all wash before eating.
ellos/as/ustedesselavanSe lavan rápidamente.They wash quickly.

Common Reflexive Verbs

Daily Routine

Spanish VerbEnglish MeaningExampleExample Meaning
levantarseto get upMe levanto a las siete.I get up at seven.
ducharseto showerMe ducho por la mañana.I shower in the morning.
vestirseto get dressedMe visto rápidamente.I get dressed quickly.
acostarseto go to bedMe acuesto temprano.I go to bed early.
cepillarseto brushMe cepillo los dientes.I brush my teeth.
maquillarseto put on makeupElla se maquilla antes de salir.She puts on makeup before going out.

Emotional and Psychological States

Spanish VerbEnglish MeaningExampleExample Meaning
enojarseto get angryMe enojo con facilidad.I get angry easily.
sentirseto feelMe siento cansado.I feel tired.
aburrirseto get boredMe aburro en clase.I get bored in class.
preocuparseto worryMe preocupo por el examen.I worry about the exam.

Mutual Actions (Reciprocal)

Spanish VerbEnglish MeaningExampleExample Meaning
abrazarseto hug each otherNos abrazamos en la reunión.We hug each other at the meeting.
besarseto kiss each otherSe besan en la despedida.They kiss each other goodbye.
saludarseto greet each otherNos saludamos con respeto.We greet each other respectfully.

Changes in Meaning

Reflexive FormNon-Reflexive FormReflexive MeaningNon-Reflexive Meaning
irseirto leave/go awayto go/travel
dormirsedormirto fall asleepto sleep
olvidarseolvidarto forget (something unintentionally)to forget (something intentionally)
caer(se)caerto fall down (accidentally)to fall

Reflexive Pronouns Summary

Subject PronounReflexive Pronoun
yome
te
él/ella/ustedse
nosotros/asnos
vosotros/asos
ellos/as/ustedesse

Tips

  • Use reflexive verbs when the subject and object are the same.
  • Place reflexive pronouns before conjugated verbs or attach them to infinitives/gerunds.
  • Not all verbs that end in -se are reflexive in every context (some can be used non-reflexively).
  • Some reflexive verbs are always reflexive — they are not used without the pronoun (e.g., quejarse – to complain).
  • Idiomatic reflexive verbs carry meanings that are not obvious from their parts (e.g., irse means “to leave,” not “to go oneself” literally).

Summary

Reflexive verbs help express so many aspects of daily life, from getting ready to emotional states and interpersonal interactions. Recognizing reflexive pronouns and understanding the context will make you more fluent and precise in Spanish.

to forget (something unintentionally)


olvidarse

"Olvidarse" means "to forget (something unintentionally)" and is reflexive. "Olvidar" is the non-reflexive form.

We hug each other at the meeting.


Nos abrazamos en la reunión.

"Nos abrazamos en la reunión." means "We hug each other at the meeting." The verb "abrazarse" is reflexive and reciprocal here, with "nos" indicating "we each other."

Flashcards (1 of 19)

  • Subject Pronoun: yo
  • Reflexive Pronoun: me
  • Conjugated Verb: lavo
  • English Example: I wash my hands.

Last updated: Wed Jun 18, 2025

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